Comfort is not a reward, it is a systematic management process for emotions like sadness, grief and anger.
Punishing big emotions only exacerbates and fuels anger/frustration etc. The emotional child is needing and wanting for your comfort and attention.
Will you choose to be soothing and help soften rough, sharply-edged and pointy emotions, or do you continue to whip and lash the suffering *animal/hurting *child?
*Plot-twist: The suffering animal/child is you.
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